10 Qualities to Look For in a Trustworthy Psychic
“Intuition is a spiritual faculty and does not explain but simply points the way.”
Very few psychics discuss their code of ethics and the karmic laws by which they abide. Yet, like every other service, there are rules and professional standards a trustworthy psychic will take into consideration when working with an individual. After all, a highly attuned intuition is a powerful gift but requires disciplined practice to be handled with maturity and wisdom.
Along the journey of recognizing my own intuition, I’ve had the delight of being in the company of many different psychics, including renowned channelers and mediums. They have each personally shared with me some of the guidelines they follow when working with clients. I feel it’s important to share some of them so they can be of help to you when booking your next psychic reading.
1. They Ask for Permission
There’s a reason why this is rule number one. A professional and trustworthy psychic will ask for your permission first or, at the very least, wait for you to ask for their guidance before offering any insights.
In a way, this can be viewed as common sense. We all, to some extent, read each other’s energy, body language, tone of voice, etc., but to connect with someone at a multidimensional level and act as a messenger of their higher guides requires permission. Otherwise, it can be seen or felt as an intrusion. Much like asking someone if you can enter their home, psychics require your permission to enter your energy space.
Permission can be granted in many different ways, some indirectly or as an exchange. Here are a few ways to give a psychic permission to connect with you:
Saying “yes”: By verbally agreeing to their request to connect with you and your guides, you directly grant them permission.
Paying for a reading: By paying for a reading, you exchange currency for their service, which is an understood way of giving permission.
Verbally asking: By asking questions about the answers you seek, you invite the psychic to connect and communicate the messages they receive.
2. They Don’t Speak in Absolutes About the Future
Our individual free will is powerful, and a high-level psychic knows that! While we may face tough challenges that seem set in stone, with enough conviction, we can change our destiny.
A trustworthy psychic understands that a future prediction may appear in a reading, but it is not absolute, and they will not communicate it in definitive terms. They are also unlikely to describe specific details of a prediction because such details are mutable. As long as an event has not yet taken place, it remains somewhat unknown and open to change.
3. They Are Upfront About Not Being Able to Connect
Sometimes the ego gets the best of us, especially when we are paid to perform a service, and we want to deliver well. But a truly wise and professional psychic will admit to not forming a connection or receiving any messages during a reading.
Not being able to connect seldom reflects on the psychic’s ability. Sometimes the subject is too rigid or skeptical to give energetic permission. Other times, the guides on the other side may withhold certain information because it’s in the subject’s best interest not to know. The most ethical practice is to be honest and let the subject know they are not receiving information on a particular question.
4. They Are Fair and Consistent With Their Pricing
The cost of readings and healing sessions with psychics can vary widely. The important thing to look for is consistency. When booking a session with a psychic, be sure to establish an agreement on pricing upfront. An ethical and trustworthy psychic will not charge different prices based on the individual or ask for more money during your work together.
They should clearly outline their rates, the services they provide, and what you can expect. An ethical psychic understands their role as a messenger and guide. They focus on being of service and practice fairness in compensation.
5. They Empower Rather Than Discourage You
A trustworthy psychic uses positive language. They are not there to criticize or frighten you about your path or future. Your higher guides always want the best for you, providing messages of practical guidance and encouragement.
As a result, a psychic should not connect with guidance that is harsh or angry. After a session, you should walk away with more clarity and a sense of hope.
6. They Allow You to Interpret Your Own Messages
Messages from a higher source often come in different forms. Because your guides don’t communicate in the same language we do, they may use numbers, colors, or symbols. Sometimes these messages cannot be fully understood by the psychic who channels them.
A professional and experienced psychic knows that these messages are for you alone. Their role is to act as a conduit, allowing the messages to flow through to you. Their job is not to interpret the codes from your guides but simply to pass them on for your interpretation. However, they can assist you in interpreting a message if you seek further clarity.
7. They Don’t Give Unsolicited Insights or Advice
A professional and trustworthy psychic will rarely give unsolicited insights or advice unless they feel a very strong pull. Even in such cases, they should still request your permission before sharing information.
During a session, a psychic typically receives messages specifically about you. The more questions you ask, the more messages will come through. Alternatively, you can ask the psychic to channel whatever your guides want you to know. A responsible psychic will explain their process, invite your input, and allow guidance to come through.
8. They Don’t Habitually Tell You What to Do
Trustworthy psychics understand their role and are mindful of offering personal advice unless you invite it.
When it comes to life decisions or navigating challenges, a psychic can provide clarity by passing along the messages you need to hear. However, it is not their place to dictate your actions.
This is often a gray area, as individual preferences vary. If you have a strong rapport with your psychic, you may feel comfortable receiving advice. Be sure that the personal guidance aligns with your highest good and core values.
9. They Don’t Judge or Blame You
This is an essential quality of a wise and trustworthy psychic. When someone connects with you and acts as an open channel for messages, they may learn a great deal about you on an intimate level.
A professional psychic refrains from inserting personal opinions or judgments during a session. Instead, they remain neutral and positive, helping bring clarity without interfering with your growth and personal journey.
10. They Don’t Value Their Intuition Over Yours
Lastly, a wise psychic will never make you feel that their intuition is superior to yours. While they may be naturally gifted, they understand that you are the owner of the messages they pass on. It is perfectly normal if some of the messages don’t resonate with you.
Psychics are human too. They experience life on Earth like the rest of us, and personal filters may occasionally come into play. A professional psychic acknowledges this and encourages you to trust your intuition. They will not force their insights on you because they respect that you alone create your present and future.
Choosing a psychic is a deeply personal decision, and finding one with integrity and professionalism can make all the difference. I hope the qualities I’ve shared here help you get the most out of a reading, leaving you feeling empowered, understood, and supported on your journey forward.
