Happier Parenting: An Interview with Ben Yau
I wanted to raise my kids by working on myself to become a happier person knowing the side effect of that will be my kids picking up my characteristics.
You reach your wits’ end and your current way of being isn’t working for the life you want, so you decide to make a real change. You have built enough awareness to discover a pattern of self-sabotage you’ve been repeating throughout your life.
Knowing we are whole and complete takes us out of the mentality of not being good enough when pursuing self-improvement, and puts us in the mindset of empowerment instead. This way, we are on a journey of discovery rather than a search for something we don’t have.
When you anticipate what's next and respond to that anticipation before the moment requires you to, you interrupt the natural unfolding of events.